Youth, my most prised possesion, is leaving me and I don't know how to cope…?
I am an 18-year-old gay man. Before I know it, I'll be in my 40s and living alone in a small, one-story house in a filthy suburb. After I die, nobody will remember my name. In a few days, I'll officially be a college student. A college student who drinks coffee and carries a messenger bag and who's quickly approaching 19. I might as well start digging my own grave to avoid putting the cemetery people through so much work, as I'll need a large hole, since I'm so big. My hair is dark, my eyes are dark, my jaw is too severe... I look too strict and mature. I will never be the fresh, young child I used to be, the one who ran carelessly in the prairies, licking a lolipop. I'll never go back to that. I eat a lot because I want my pale, sick-looking face and neck to get a bit bigger, to have a chubby, childish look, but everything I eat goes straight to my stomach and love handles and now I am too ashamed to remove my coat when in public and keep it on to mask my curves. I am ashamed of myself and bitter and spend my days walking around the house, gazing resentfully at pictures of my former self.
Soon, I won't feel the touch of youth anymore. Right now, my hands are rather smooth and if I rub them together, I can feel the softness of my skin, but in a year or two, even if I touch the behind of a fresh baby, all I'll feel will be the pig-like, rugged skin attached to my once unspoilt and delicate hands. My skin will soon start to sag. I started writing my memoirs, but my life has been so bitter and boring that I have nothing else to write about than my spite for everything and everyone.
How can I cope with this?
Don’t say that! I am turning 18 tomorrow! Way to scare the shit out of me!!!
build a bridge and get over yourself.
you have 20 yrs before you are 40 and 40 does NOT mean you don’t look or act or feel youthful.
Dramatic much?
You should stop watching to many dramatic films. That’s Life, you grow up. You shouldn’t think of life like that, I miss when i was a kid to, and i’m 15. Everyone misses there child hood. You have to move on and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Your still young. Just make the most of life and stop sitting in the dusk.
oh dont have a cow… you have a long time before your mid life crisis takes affect!
LIVE while you can!
Laugh as much as possible
Love whatever it is you love.
You have two choices, grow older or die. Personally I like being in my 40’s, every day brings something new. Youth is not a possession, but something you had on loan. You’re body is changing, so what. It’s what is on the inside that counts. A 70 year old person is not going to look like a 20 year old. Does that make them ugly? No, it makes them look older and wiser. Live each day to it’s fullest, don’t worry about the past, you can’t change it. Don’t worry about tomorrow. You write your own destiny. Sitting worrying about getting older is not going to get you anywhere. Be thankful that you have your health. Get off of the pity train and if you don’t like your weight, go to a gym.
The same way as everyone who get’s older. Stop feeling sorry for yourself as that will not help or change anything. Make a decision to better yourself and be the best you that you can be at whatever age you are. You will gain in confidence when you do this and confidence is very attractive. You will get older. Deal with it.
ok, funny….you got me to laugh. First time today! Thanks.
OH BROTHER !
ROFLMAO
sorry but I have always look forward to aging.
after all you can’t stop it, so why not enjoy it.
You can control you wiegt. I got to 310 and I am back to 220.
I have lots of great friends including those youthful ones.
Though I am 68 I think like a 35 yr old.
Now you find out that your personality if the most valuable asset you have.